Just a reminder that “trans” or “transgender” are literally just terms. If you want to you can “just” go through your psysical transition and never look back. Or do whatever you feel like and never talk about it again. If you want to you can simply just be a e.g. guy and never have to call yourself a “trans guy”. I mean it’s not AT ALL like you aren’t truthful. Cis people doesn’t exactly have to stand by their “cisness” all of the time. Just like you don’t have to stand by your “transness” except when YOU feel that it’s necessary for YOURSELF. You don’t owe it to anybody and if it ever would be anybody it would be YOURSELF. YOU. Not anybody else. YOU. This is your “journey”. This is your life. You being transgender doesn’t have to mean anything or determine anything about yourself. Just like you’re allowed to be a huge part of the trans community as a trans person or really identify with that label you’re allowed to never have to “stand by” it.

My point is just that you’re you. So what if you’re transgender? Or however you like to label it or not label it. This is YOUR life. You’re supposed to go through all this because of yourself anyways. You don’t owe anything to anybody (doesn’t matter who they are), because of that aspect of yourself.

You’re just you. It’s as simple as that.