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Everytime I posted something remotely pro-feminist, I would get all kinds of misogynistic harassment and horrible threats via anonymous. I’ve got a folder of screenshots showing how misogynistic these monsters are.

Yes. They are monsters. They behave positively sociopathic towards pro-feminist women.

They target women who speak out about gender inequality.

Sure when I stay silent on these issues, I do not get MRA harassment. Which is the point. To silence.

But nah. I won’t.

You should see the hate that women get when they speak in favor of men’s rights. From other women. From feminists.

Yeah I’m sure they do get hate. But that’s not anywhere near the same.

There’s a huge fucking difference between men harassing pro-feminist women and stalking them, sending them rape and death threats accompanied with misogynistic slurs.

That is terrifying. That is traumatizing. Do not try to compare the two.

Don’t tell me what not to compare. They HAVE received rape and death threats. I myself have received a handful of them as well, although my blog doesn’t have enough visibility yet for most of the trolls to have taken notice.

I will damn well tell you what not to compare since there is an epidemic of these misogynistic monsters trying to ruin womens’ lives. There are plenty of articles on this.

And these are misogynistic men being predators using misogynistic slurs to silence women.

They are intentionally being oppressive and that makes a huge fucking difference.

There are plenty of women using misandrist slurs to silence men who speak out about their own issues. Besides, I don’t see MRAs going “kill all women”.

Regardless, what makes you think these people who are sending you harassing messages are MRAs? Can someone be misogynist and not be an MRA?

There exist no “misandrist” slurs as that would require a long history of systemic oppression against men like there is for women.

Men are called ‘bitch/pussy’ when they are not acting manly enough or showing weakness etc.
Literally being called a woman/feminine is the worst insult for men.
That’s not misandry.

Oh yeah of course.
But I imagine many of these assholes are anti-feminists of some form because every goddamn time I post pro-feminist content, the awful misogyny comes flooding in my inbox.
Though it’s much less now that I have turned off anon and added an IP tracker.

There exist no “misandrist” slurs as that would require a long history of systemic oppression against men like there is for women.

Just because you choose to ignore it doesn’t mean it isn’t there.

Men are called ‘bitch/pussy’ when they are not acting manly enough or showing weakness etc.
Literally being called a woman/feminine is the worst insult for men.

It really isn’t. That’s just feminist self-serving speculation.

No…. it’s historical fact? Like… Wtf? I’m not interested in conspiracy theories…
Systems of oppression are binary. There is an oppressor class and oppressed class.


Please elaborate further….. I do not understand.

Yeah. Men being forced into combat is definitely oppression of women. Men not having any reproductive rights is oppression of women. Men being sentenced much more harshly than women for the same crimes is oppression of women. Men largely being viewed by society as disposable? Definitely oppression of women.

Men suffer more casualties in war

  • Men are 99.999% of American combat deaths and casualties
  • Men are at least 97% of the deaths since the first Gulf War
  • “The numbers of wounded women and female amputees, meanwhile, are considerably less than their male counterparts–at least 378 wounded versus 17,490; 11 amputees versus over 400–but they are historic for modern day warfare.”
  • A Pentagon study published in March on the mental health of soldiers returning from deployment to Iraq and Afghanistan found that more than one- third of U.S. soldiers received psychological counseling. A statistic buried in the study: 23.6 percent of women reported a mental health concern compared with 18.6 percent of men.

currently, women are not even required by law to register for selective service, but even mentally challenged and physically disabled men are, in addition to all the healthy ones)


In contrast, women get every veteran’s benefit a man does, yet comprise less than 3% of combat deaths or casualties and a woman makes the cover of Time magazine (person of the year/2003 standing in front of two men.

Men have it rough in the workplace

  • Men are 93% of industrial deaths and accident (NIOSH)

  • Even though murder is the leading workplace cause of death for women, a statistic often used by gender feminists, that number is only a percentage of the 6% of workplace deaths that women comprise.  In other words, a fraction of a small fraction.


Men die more often from unnatural causes than women

  • Men are:

       76% of homicide victims – DOJ

       80% of Suicide victims – CDC

  • Also:

    Suicide ranks 11th among causes of death in the US, with 30,622 completed suicides in 2001. It is the 3rd leading cause of death among people 15 to 24 yr. Men ≥ 75 yr have the highest rate of death by suicide. Among all age groups, male deaths by suicide outnumber female deaths by 4:1.”
  • “The other most common suicide victims are divorced and/or estranged fathers like Derrick Miller. In fact, a divorced father is ten times more likely to commit suicide than a divorced mother, and three times more likely to commit suicide than a married father.

    ~Suicide took the lives of 30,622 people in 2001 (CDC 2004).
    ~Suicide is the eighth leading cause of death for all U.S. men (Anderson and Smith 2003).
    ~24,672 suicide deaths reported among men in 2001
    ~24,672 / 30,622 = .8056952
    ~In other words, over 80% of all suicide deaths were male.
  • Of the top fifteen leading causes of death, men lead in 12 categories, are tied in two and trail in one.  Even though more women die of heart disease each year, men die of heart disease many years earlier.


Men are the overwhelming majority of rape victims

  • Male rape has been called “The most closely guarded secret of American prisons.” (Weiss and Friar 1974)

    There are estimated to be over 300,000 male rapes per year in American prisons and jails.
  • Meanwhile A United Nations statistical report compiled from government sources showed that more than 250,000 cases of male-female rape or attempted rape were recorded by police annually. The reported data covered 65 countries.
  • According to the 2009 United States National Crime Victimization Survey estimates, only 55% of rapes and sexual assaults were reported to law enforcement officials. When a male is raped, less than 10% are believed to be reported. Female-male and female-female rape are ignored altogether in this survey.

Other facts regarding men and rape:

  • 2.1% of men reported forced vaginal sex compared to 1.6% of women in a relationship in the previous year. From: Predictors of Sexual Coersion.
  • 94% of sexually abused youth in correctional facilities reported being abused by female staff. From: Sexual Victimization in Juvenile Facilities, 2008-09.
  • Among inmates reporting staff sexual misconduct, ~ 65% reported a female aggressor. From: Sexual Victimization in Prisons and Jails Reported by Inmates, 2008-09.
  • 50% of homeless youth reported being sexually abused by a female. From: It’s Not What You Think: Sexually Exploited Youth in British Columbia

Men get screwed over in divorce and custody courts

  • A woman is the party filing for divorce in about 66% of divorce cases.

    “How often was it that many more of women wanted the divorce more than the men?
    2/3. The same as the amount responsible for divorce filings. And yet another study of divorced couples found that the majority of divorced wives and husbands both agreed it was the wife who wanted out.”
  • Women receive custody in about 84% of child custody cases.

    In the spring of 2002, an estimated 13.4 million parents had custody of 21.5 million children under 21 years of age whose other parent lived somewhere else. About 5 of every 6 custodial parents were mothers (84.4 percent) and 1in 6 were fathers (15.6 percent), proportions statistically unchanged since 1994

According to Los Angeles divorce consultant Jayne Major:

“Divorced men are often devastated by the loss of their children. It’s a little known fact that in the United States men initiate only a small number of the divorces involving children. Most of the men I deal with never saw their divorces coming, and they are often treated very unfairly by the family courts.’”

  • Paternity fraud is rampant in the U.S.

    30% of those named as fathers who test for paternity find they are not the biological father.
  • Not only is all this imbalance around marriage and children unfair to men, we must also consider that the damaged inflicted on fatherless children is staggering:

       63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average.

       90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average.

       85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)

       80% of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26)

       71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)

       75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes – 10 times the average. (Rainbows for All God’s Children)

       70% of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes – 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988)

       85% of all youths in prison come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction)

Men are often screwed over in the Justice System as well.

  • There is blatant anti-male discrimination in the criminal justice system and the sentencing disparity between men and women exceeds that between whites and any other minority.
  • Avg sentences for crime by gender:

    Female – 18.51 months
    Male – 51.52 months
  • “Judge bashes Probation Department for gender bias in favor of leniency for girls”
  • The 2006 United States’ rate of incarceration of 751 inmates per 100,000 population is the highest reported rate in the world, well ahead of the Russian rate of 628 per 100,000.

    93% of the prison population is male with over 60% having no High School education.   America has now passed Russia as the country that has the largest percentage of its population incarcerated, yet we still claim to be the freest country on earth.

    The number of persons on probation and parole has been growing dramatically along with institutional populations. There are now 7.2 million Americans incarcerated or on probation or parole, an increase of more than 290 percent since 1980.
  • The problem of sentencing disparities is compounded by an epidemic of false accusations:

    205 (and growing) wrongly convicted people have been exonerated by DNA evidence since the beginning of the Innocence Project.

    204 of the wrongly convicted were men.

    Most of them were falsely imprisoned for rape.
  • As we saw in the Duke Lacrosse rape case  fiasco, false accusers are rarely prosecuted and when they are it is only as a misdemeanor (at most), while rape itself is vigorously prosecuted as a felony. The Duke false accuser, Crystal Gayle Mangum went on to commit assault, arson and finally murder before authorities made a good faith intervention.

    One attorney speaking at premiere for the movie, After Innocence, estimates that there are between 20,000 and 100,000 wrongly convicted still in prison.

    Valid research puts the estimated false rape reporting rate at 41%

Capital Punishments Target Men Almost Exclusively

  • Since the death penalty was reinstated in 1976, there have been over 1,200 executions in the United States. Eleven of them, or less than 1%, were women. This stands in stark contrast considering women commit, by DOJ estimates, 10% of all murders, are involved in 35% of all domestic homicides (are involved often means they get other people to kill for them) and nearly 30% of murders where the victim was another family member.

Other:

  • We hear a lot about the historical oppression of women’s voting rights, but few if any women who were born in the 20th century were every without the right to vote in their lifetime, upon reaching legal voting age.  On the other hand, around 2400 hundred California men (42% of CA men killed in Vietnam) gave their life for their country without being allowed by their country to vote.  The exact number is 2,381.  Four of the twelve Iwo Jimo flag raisers died for their country without their country ever allowing them the right to vote.
  • “The youngest Vietnam KIA is believed to be Dan Bullock USMC, at 15 years old.
    At least 5 men killed in Vietnam were 16 years old.
    At least 12 men killed in Vietnam were 17 years old.
    There are 120 persons who listed foreign countries as their home of record.
    At least 25,000 of those killed were 20 years old or younger.
    The oldest man killed was 62 years old.”

    If you do a full count on all the men in the 20th century who died for their country without being allowed to vote the numbers will be staggering.

    In America there are over 270 women’s commissions, but only one for men in New Hampshire.

    There are over 700 Women’s Studies programs on colleges and universities throughout the United States teaching thousands or tens of thousands of classes from the gender feminist perspective, but not one program or class, teaching men’s studies from the masculist perspective.

    Men are fully half of the victims  of domestic violence (26% of intimate partner homicides), yet are denied service at most tax payer funded domestic violence shelters.

    The CDC reports that in cases of non-reciprocal intimate partner violence (one directional) that women are more than twice as likely to be the aggressor. The report cites that women comprise 70% of perpetrators, men 29%.

    In the largest collection of studies on intimate partner violence known, Martin Fiebert of the California State University, Longbeach offers the following:

    SUMMARY:  This bibliography examines 286 scholarly investigations: 221 empirical studies and 65 reviews and/or analyses, which demonstrate that women are as physically aggressive, or more aggressive, than men in their relationships with their spouses or male partners.  The aggregate sample size in the reviewed studies exceeds 371,600.
  • In another study the CDC lists male victims of domestic violence at more than 34%, but men injured in Iraq (and all other men) are by law in California excluded from domestic violence shelter services. Only one shelter in Lancaster, CA accepts men and it has been extensively harassed for doing so.

    That harassment is a systemic problem with origins that emanate from academe. Dr. Murray Straus, an internationally recognized expert on intimate partner violence published the following paper outlining the various ways that feminist ideologues suppress data and research on IPV that demonstrates gender symmetry in its incidence.
  • Men are subject to extreme discrimination in healthcare.

    Men today die on average 6 years sooner than women.  In 1920 the variance was one year.  The death rates for prostate and breast cancer are similar, but because men die of other things more frequently-accidents ,war, heart disease etc., there are fewer men left to die of prostate cancer.  This is akin to saying people from a nation like Zimbabwe are immune to Alzheimer’s- but in fact they die of other things before they can get old enough to contract Alzheimer’s.

    To date, there are numerous federal offices on women’s health, and not a single one for men. Also, the lion’s share of gender specific medical research is done on behalf of women.

    Men and boys are suffering decline in the educational system. Department of Education graph:

    Boys are facing a significantly harder time in early education than girls. Yet girls, from primary education through college still benefit from many more special programs designed to help them gain “equality” with males.

Some info on the wage gap

  • The wage gap myth based on the “comparable worth” paradigm:
  • While men make more money than women on average, women control and spend vastly more money than men.
  • Women as an economically disadvantaged group is a myth that negatively affects men.

    Not too long ago, legendary adman David Ogilvy chided his peers for talking down to women. He berated those who ignored women or discounted them, misconstruing men’s higher paychecks to mean greater spending clout. And he was right. According to the Bureau of Economic Analysis, women–who comprise just over 51 percent of the U.S. population, making them the largest consumer segment in the country–control six trillion dollars in buying power annually. Statistics show that:

    Women make 88 percent of all U.S. retail purchases. Some experts even predict that, by 2020, women will control most of the money in America.

    Women control 88 percent of all purchases.

    Women handle 75 percent of family finances. 43 percent of those with assets over $500,000 are women.

    Women influence two out of every three of the 3 trillion dollars spent in the U.S. each year!

    From the Sisters4Sisters Yellow Pages:

       Women are starting businesses at twice the rate of men.

       One out of every 11 American women owns her own business.

       Currently there are over 10.6 million women-owned businesses employing 19.1 million people and generating $2.5 trillion in sales.

       Women make or influence over 85% of all purchasing decisions.

       In 2010, women have the majority of wealth in America.

    Men pay the majority of social security taxes and are outlived by six years by women, but the government makes no fair adjustment to how those funds are distributed.

    In summary, men experience systematic discrimination in parenting, domestic violence policies, education, criminal sentencing, paternity, forced labor, military conscription, public health policies, genital integrity, false accusations, reproductive rights, portrayal by the media and in the coverage of their issues by the news media.

    Misandry is often expressed through racism.

    From Scottsboro An American Tragedy.

    “The protection of white womanhood, it might be the pivot around all Southern culture. Of the 5,000 people who were lynched from 1880 to 1940, most were black men accused of raping or sexually assaulting white women.” – Robin Kelly, Historian

    From American Man

    “In 1931, two white women stepped from a boxcar in Paint Rock, Alabama to make a shocking accusation: they had been raped by nine black teenagers on the train.” … ”- a poor white woman whose lie lends her respectability…”
    PBS Home Video

    Scottsboro An American Tragedy
    The case that sparked the civil rights movement

    As we have seen with the “war on drugs,” legislation like VAWA, primary aggressor laws, mandatory arrest laws and the like have a disproportionately negative effect on minorities and other low income populations.
  • Or the differences in healthcare for men and women in Obamacare program
  • Young men will be the biggest losers in the transition to Obamacare. Reports estimate that males as a whole will see:

       11% increase in insurance premiums compared to 9% drop in females

       Men under 40 will face 18% - 31% insurance hikes compared to females under 40 13% to 19% decrease

       Young men ages 25-36 will could face insurance premiums of 50% or more compared to young females 25-29 who will see 4% increase
  • The wage gap myth based on the “comparable worth” paradigm:

Feminists don’t give a shit about anything I’ve read.

If men aren’t Feminists, they’re scum. Hell, if men ARE Feminists, often time they’re told by RadFems to fuck off anyway. If women aren’t Feminists, they “don’t love themselves” or suffer from “internalized misogyny.” Feminism only gives a shit about advancing their dogma, and other Feminists. I’ve yet to see any way, shape, or form they’ve demonstrated otherwise.

Special Thanks to Alicia for retaining information here. I can expand with something entirely original if you like, to elaborate on why I despise the current incarnation of Feminism and several of it’s backwards ideals

Source: imaginary-fool

I have yet to see any one has ever done to Anita sarkeesian Brianna Wu Laci Green or Big Red what feminists have done to HoneyBadgers Greg Elliott Warren Farrell  Erin Pizzey who was ran out of her own country.

First off lol I work at a huge Sexual Assualt/DV organization and we accept men and women victims.
All of us who work there are feminists. The people who run the place are feminists. What are you even talking about that feminists are against male victims? Lol.


Okay this is the logical fallacy of overloaded response. It’s a tactic meant to overwhelm the opposition because they cannot possibly respond to all of this and they back down.

I cannot address all of these sources and arguments. It would take hours.

You need to start off one argument at a time and I will address it.

As a MALE ABUSE SURVIVOR I have never felt more invisible then when I was in the company of feminist.

An I was a feminist.

I have had multiple feminist in my REAL OFFLINE LIFE tell me I can’t be abused or tell me it didn’t matter. Now these weren’t random feminist of the  street mind you. These were people I was close with. These were people I TRUSTED an LOOKED UP TO.

They were professors, a therapist, classmates and FRIENDS who l knew for several Year’s  while I was being abused. They saw what I was going through over and over again AND THEY DID NOTHING.  I went through Pill Popping, slitting my wrists, binge drinking to I pass the fuck out and I got very very close to chugging bleach and much worst, before I finally got out of that relationship.

Now granted, I don’t think there’s anything a feminist can tell me that will ever make me feel anywhere near as bad as felt with my ex.

HOWEVER..When I was told to my face in no uncertain terms"  I’m really sorry for what you’ve been through but BOYS DON’T SUFFER ENOUGH FOR IT TO BE AN ISSUE and we need to focus more on NOT TALKING OVER GIRLS" i was gone.

An lets say your right. IS THIS WHAT YOU TELL A VICTIM OF ABUSE AND SEXUAL ASSAULT?

I looked at this women like a big sister. An I was treated like a fucking sadistic out of a gender studies book.

I may still have friends here and there who identify as feminist, but I am never going back to the movement AN i WILL NEVER TRUST FEMINISM.  

Now you maybe be a good person but I have had too many feminist do me dirty. An that is not a generalization of feminism.

I’m not going to generalize feminism, because I don’t need to. I didn’t need the whole movement to make a bad situation worse. All I needed was a handful of feminist masquerading as close friends to look at my pain and cut me deeper.

In short I had ENOUGH!

Secondly I don’t believe in any kind of Shady tactics like that.I personally find idea to be disgusting.

My intent is not to overwhelm anybody. If that was the case then I would have wasted my time. No my intent is to not be ignored. My intent is to not be acceptable casualty.

Ok, so you and your people help men. I wish that was enough. I also wish I knew where you were when I was going through what I was going through, things might be different. And I do I mean no disrespect but part of me questions your care.

I personally don’t find the sources hard to respond to . Maybe I was feeling at the time but I read through everything I compiled and posted in almost no time at all.

your mileage may vary

“ Systems of oppression are binary. There is an oppressor class and oppressed class.”

This is the first indication that your system is utter bullshit. Nothing is that simple and easy. NOTHING

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